The Good Attitude AND The Bad Attitude For Depression

 

Beating your BAD wife

 

* Beating your BAD wife is a last resort to save your marriage and your children and yourself and your wife But if you abused your wife, you will go to the HELLFIRE

 

* Beating your bad wife is to correct her as you beat your children to correct them, beating does not mean you brake her bone

 

* If YOU disagree with the Quran ----> DON'T beat your wife divorce her and make YOUR children suffered pain of divorce rest of their life

 

* As good father to save my children i will kick her ass to save my children from becoming motherless and fatherless

 

* So can a woman beat her husband to correct him and save their marriage?

 

* Why not if she can? in fact there are lot of women who kick their husband to correct them

 

* There are in some case you should beat men, women, children to correct them. your INTENTION MUST be to correct them NOT to abuse them

 

* What would you do if you have little children and your wife is bad ass?

 

Quran Chapter 4 Verse 19

O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may Take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.

 

Quran 4:34

''Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).''

 

Quran  4:128

''If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best; even though men's souls are swayed by greed. But if ye do good and practise self-restraint, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.''

 

The Quran 4:35

says: “And if you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from his relatives and an arbiter from her relatives. If they both desire reconciliation Allah will affect harmony between them. Verily Allah has full knowledge, and is aware of everything.”

( The Husband and The Wife Are > Protecting Friends < One Of Another )

 

Quran 9:71

''And the believers, men and women, are > Protecting Friends < one of another; they enjoin the right and forbid the wrong, and they establish worship and they pay the poor-due, and they obey God and His messenger. As for these, God will have mercy on them. Lo! God is Mighty, Wise.''

 

Quran16:97

“To whoever, male or female, does good deeds and has faith, We shall give a good life and reward them according to the best of their actions.

 

Prophet Muhammad said

 "Best among you is one who is best to his wife, and I am best among you in my dealings with my wives."

 

Prophet Muhammad said: 

" O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under a trust from God and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste."

 

The Prophet Muhammad said, “Heaven lies under the feet of your mother.”

 

The Prophet Muhammad said“ The Best Of You Are Those Who Are Best To Their Women.”

 

Quran 2/229 

''Live with your wives in a way that is kind and gracious, or release them with kindness''

 

Why did God created male and female and what are their  purpose?

 

Could God populate the earth with only the female gender?

 

Yes God could populate the earth with only the female gender but that would be very very hard on her to raise children without help and a companion.

 

God created man and woman as protector and to serves each-other and no one is above the other a boss, husband and wife are servant of each-other and companion. God literally created male and female for that purpose.

 

Quran 30:21

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy…..” ie love

 

 Quran 2:187

 Allah said  ''....They (your wife) are clothing for you and you are clothing for them...."

 

Note: The purpose of our cloths is to protect our body HARM from hot and cold weather so God giving this example of cloth that he created male and female to protect each-other and that's the reason he created male and female to protect and to love each other. 

 

God literally put love / attraction ''chemical'' between male and female.

 

You must read the whole Quran to understand relationship between male and female.

 

Note

* Certain men in every culture, race, nationality, religions, atheists, rich, poor, educated, uneducated men beat their wife without the limits

 

* If you tell husband to stop beating his wife would he stop beating her?

 

* Regardless how much you educate man not to beat their wife they will continue to beat their wife without the limits

 

* The ONLY fear of God's punishment can make husband to stop beating their wife

 

* Islam is a realistic religion, Allah does not shy away to give human realistic solution to their problem

 

* If you abused your wife or your children or your husband or your parents or any human being or animals the most CERTAINLY you will go to the HELLFIRE

 

 

''Some'' men will beat their wife even if God say do not '' beat your wife '' because man nature is to fight when their feeling get hurts so God say beat them and he also said treat your wife kindly or release them with kindness

We can not make men to stop beating women or men or children but we can teach men to beat justly fairly but forgiveness is better.

Beating wife is world wide issue, there is no country in the world without this problem.

Show me a realistic solution other than beating kindling?