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   Quran 73:9: “He is the Lord of the East and the West; there is no deity except Him, so take Him as Disposer of your affairs.” breakdown


Hoarding Wealth

Happiness is Found in Service to Others


Quranic Wisdom on Giving Space to Others – The verse about making space in gatherings (Surah Al-Mujadila 58:11) serves as a metaphor for how Allah grants blessings and opportunities to those who accommodate others.


Even Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Could Not Save His Own Family and You

📖 Quran 28:56
"Indeed, [O Muhammad], you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He is most knowing of the [rightly] guided."

📖 Quran 9:80
"Ask forgiveness for them, [O Muhammad], or do not ask forgiveness for them. If you should ask forgiveness for them seventy times—never will Allah forgive them. That is because they disbelieved in Allah and His Messenger. And Allah does not guide the defiantly disobedient people."

👉 Key Takeaway:

  • Even the Prophet (PBUH) could not guarantee Paradise for his own family.

  • Only God decides based on faith and actions, not personal connections.

 No Intercession for you

Who Does Allah NOT Guide?

The Quran also mentions categories of people who do not receive Allah’s guidance:

  1. Wrongdoers (Zalimeen) – (2:258)
  2. Disbelievers (Kafireen) – (2:264)
  3. Arrogant and Proud (Mutakabbireen) – (7:146)
  4. Corruptors (Mufsideen) – (5:64)
  5. Liars (Kadhibeen) – (39:3)
  6. Transgressors (Fasiqeen) – (63:6)

 

Guidance Come from the Quran Alone (6:114)

  • “Then is it other than Allah I should seek as judge while it is He who has revealed to you the Book explained in detail?” (Quran 6:114)
  • True guidance comes from the Quran, not from human-made books or traditions.

 

 

Momin

  •  “Whoever does righteousness, whether male or female, while being a believer – We will surely give them a good life, and We will surely reward them according to the best of what they used to do.” (Quran 16:97)

     

    Retaliation often escalates conflict, while forgiveness promotes peace.

  • Verse: "And if you punish [an enemy, O believers], punish with an equivalent of that with which you were harmed. But if you are patient—it is better for those who are patient." (Quran 16:126)


  • Patience in the face of provocation is a virtue in Islam.

  • Verse: "And be patient, [O Muhammad], and your patience is not but through Allah." (Quran 16:127)

walk upon the earth humbly

The servants of the All-Merciful who walk humbly upon the earth—and when the ignorant taunt them, they reply, 'Peace!'" (25:63).

When faced with taunts or insults, the Quran advises responding with words of peace 

Verse: "And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, 'For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace be upon you; we seek not the ignorant.'" (Quran 28:55)

      • Avoid retaliation and seek peaceful resolutions.

      • Verse: "Repel [evil] with that which is better; then indeed, the one whom between you and him is enmity [will become] as though he was a devoted friend." (Quran 41:34)


    • Engage in interfaith dialogue and community service.

    • Verse: "There shall be no compulsion in [acceptance of] the religion." (Quran 2:256)


  • Support orphans, the poor, and those in need.

  • Verse: "And they give food, despite their love for it, to the poor, the orphan, and the captive." (Quran 76:8)

  • Advocate for the rights of the oppressed and marginalized.

  • Verse: "Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and oppression." (Quran 16:90)


protect yourselves and your families from a Fire

Verse: "O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones." (Quran 66:6)


Prophet Muhammad has no Authority to Make Islamic Law

No One Can Make Laws Besides Allah (Surah Ash-Shura 42:21)

"Or do they have partners who legislate for them in religion that which Allah has not allowed? But if not for the decisive word, it would have been judged between them. And indeed, the wrongdoers will have a painful punishment."

🔹 Key Lessons:

  • Allah alone has the right to legislate in matters of religion.
  • Any additional laws that are not in the Quran are human-made and must be rejected.
  • Following rulings not found in the Quran is equivalent to setting up partners with Allah in legislation.

Prophet Muhammad has no Authority to Legalize Circumcision

Prophet Muhammad has no Authority to Make Law for killing Apostate


Without God in Heart and Mind: Will Have a Miserable Life

"Whoever turns away from My remembrance will have a miserable life." (Surah Ta-Ha 20:124)


 Surah Al-Baqarah (2:97-98)

"Say: Whoever is an enemy to Gabriel—it is he who has brought the Quran down upon your heart, by Allah’s permission, confirming what was before it and as guidance and good news for the believers."


Charictic of Momin breakdown

 Surah Al-Mu’minun (23:1-4) –
"The Believers are indeed successful, those who are humble in their contact prayer, and they abstain from vain talk, and they are active towards betterment."

If Remember God: You Are Save From Hell

"Indeed, those who have Taqwa (consciousness of Allah) will be in a secure place." (Surah Ad-Dukhan 44:51) breakdown


"And whoever puts his trust in Allah, He is sufficient for him." (Surah At-Talaq 65:3) breakdown

So endure patiently, with a beautiful patience." (Surah Al-Ma’arij 70:5)breakdown

  **2. Surah Az-Zumar (39:18):** breakdown

**Verse:**  

*"Those who listen to the Word (Quran) and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding."*


 **9. Surah Al-Mulk (67:10):**breakdown

**Verse:**  

*"And they will say, 'If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.'"*


 **8. Surah Al-Hujurat (49:6):**breakdown

**Verse:**  

*"O you who have believed, if there comes to you a disobedient one with information, investigate, lest you harm a people out of ignorance and become, over what you have done, regretful."*


**Explanation:**  

This verse teaches the importance of verifying information and avoiding hasty judgments. It encourages critical thinking and careful consideration in all matters.



**Explanation:**  

This verse serves as a warning to those who fail to use their intellect and reasoning. It highlights the regret that comes from neglecting to seek knowledge and understand the truth.


Worshiping God Meaning Walking Gently

The video you've shared delves into a profound and nuanced understanding of a specific Quranic verse, **Surah Al-Furqan (25:63)**, which discusses the concept of **humility** and **gentleness** as integral aspects of **Ibaadah** (worship). The speaker breaks down the verse into its key components, analyzing the root meanings of the Arabic words and connecting them to broader spiritual and practical implications for a believer's life.

Here’s a summary of the key points discussed in the video:

1. **Verse Context**:  
   The verse (25:63) describes the qualities of the servants of the Most Gracious (Allah). It emphasizes walking gently on earth and responding to ignorance with peace. The speaker highlights that this verse is part of a broader set of verses defining **Ibaadah** (worship), which is central to a Muslim's life.

2. **Key Words and Their Meanings**:  
   - **Abbado (عِبَادُ)**: Derived from the root letters **Ain-Ba-Dal**, meaning to serve, worship, or be subservient. This word sets the context for the verse, indicating that the instructions are for those who are devoted to Allah.  
   - **Yamshuna (يَمْشُونَ)**: Derived from the root letters **Meem-Sheen-Ya**, meaning to walk or continue on a path. The speaker explains that this refers not just to physical walking but to the broader "walk of life"—the actions, goals, and character one develops over time.  
   - **Hawnan (هَوْنًا)**: Derived from the root letters **Ha-Waw-Nun**, meaning humility or gentleness. The speaker contrasts this with **humiliation**, emphasizing that humility is a voluntary lowering of pride, while humiliation is imposed by others.

3. **Humility as a Core Trait**:  
   The verse encourages believers to adopt humility in their daily lives, acknowledging their limitations and subservience to Allah's laws. This humility manifests in modesty, kindness, and respect for others. The opposite—pride, arrogance, and egotism—leads to negative character traits and eventual humiliation.

4. **Connection to Other Quranic Verses**:  
   The speaker references **Surah Luqman (31:18)**, where Allah warns against walking with pride and self-conceit. This reinforces the idea that humility is a key aspect of a believer's character and a form of worship.

5. **Responding to Ignorance with Peace**:  
   The latter part of the verse advises believers to respond to foolish or ignorant behavior with **Salam** (peace). This does not mean compromising on truth but rather maintaining a gentle and respectful demeanor when addressing disagreements or misunderstandings.

6. **Practical Application**:  
   The speaker emphasizes that understanding and applying this verse requires deep reflection and a conscious effort to embody humility in all aspects of life, including interactions with family, friends, and even those who disagree with us.

7. **Interesting Fact About the Quran**:  
   The video concludes with a promise to share an interesting fact about the Quran, though it is not explicitly stated in the transcript. This could be related to the Quran's linguistic beauty, its scientific miracles, or its timeless relevance.

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### Reflection:
This verse and its explanation highlight the importance of **humility** and **gentleness** as essential components of worship. It reminds us that **Ibaadah** is not limited to rituals but extends to our character, behavior, and interactions with others. By walking gently on earth—both physically and metaphorically—we embody the values of Islam and fulfill our purpose as servants of Allah.

If you'd like, I can help further explore related Quranic verses or provide additional insights into the concept of **Ibaadah** and its practical implications in daily life. Let me know!  

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 This is a comprehensive and detailed discussion on the Islamic rules and procedures related to **Nikkah (marriage)**, **Mehr (dower)**, **Jahez (dowry)**, **Divorce (Talaq)**, and the **ethical and cultural issues** surrounding these practices. Below is a **summary** of the key points discussed, along with references to the Quran and Hadith, as well as reflections on the cultural deviations from Islamic teachings.

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### **1. Nikkah (Marriage) Conditions**
- **Both partners must be Muslims**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:221)**  
  Allah prohibits marriage between believers and disbelievers unless the latter accept Islam.

- **Good Character**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Maida (5:5)**  
  Marriage should be between individuals of good character and faith.

- **Adulthood and Maturity**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:6)**  
  Both partners must be mature and capable of understanding their responsibilities.

- **Mutual Consent**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:3)**  
  Marriage must be based on mutual consent and choice, not coercion.

- **Woman’s Agreement**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:19)**  
  The woman’s consent is mandatory for the marriage to be valid.

- **Mehr (Dower)**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:4, 20, 24)** and **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:236-237)**  
  The husband must give a gift (Mehr) to the wife as a symbol of respect and responsibility. The amount should be reasonable and based on the husband’s financial capability.

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### **2. Jahez (Dowry)**
- **Jahez is a Cultural Practice, Not Islamic**:  
  Jahez, the practice of giving dowry from the bride’s family to the groom, is a cultural tradition, often influenced by Hinduism. It is not part of Islamic teachings and can lead to financial exploitation and social issues.  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:4, 29-31)**  
  Islam emphasizes fairness and prohibits burdening the bride’s family with excessive demands.

- **Prophet Muhammad’s Example**:  
  When Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) married his daughter Fatima to Ali (RA), there was no Jahez. The wedding expenses were borne by Ali (RA).  
  Reference: **Sahih Bukhari, Book 34, Hadith 42**

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### **3. Divorce (Talaq)**
- **Initial Steps Before Divorce**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:34-35)**  
  If disputes arise, the couple should first try to reconcile. If reconciliation fails, they may separate temporarily.

- **Misinterpretation of "Daraba" (4:34)**:  
  The word "daraba" in **Surah An-Nisa (4:34)** has multiple meanings, including "to strike" and "to explain." It does not justify domestic violence. Instead, it encourages resolving conflicts through dialogue and patience.

- **Role of Arbiters and Judges**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:35)** and **Surah At-Talaq (65:2)**  
  In case of divorce, arbiters from both sides should be appointed to mediate. If reconciliation is impossible, the judge will formalize the divorce.

- **Waiting Period (Iddat)**:  
  Reference: **Surah At-Talaq (65:4)**  
  After divorce, the wife must observe a waiting period (Iddat) of three menstrual cycles to confirm the absence of pregnancy. During this time, the husband must provide for her.

- **Reconciliation During Iddat**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:228)**  
  The couple can reconcile during the Iddat period without requiring a new Nikkah.

- **Three Divorces**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:229-230)**  
  If the husband pronounces divorce three times, the marriage is irrevocably dissolved. The couple cannot remarry unless the wife marries another man, that marriage ends, and she completes the Iddat period.

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### **4. Cultural Deviations and Hypocrisy**
- **Shortcut Halala**:  
  Some individuals misuse the concept of Halala by arranging temporary marriages to make the wife permissible for her ex-husband. This practice is against Islamic principles and is considered a grave sin.  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:230)**  
  Allah has set clear boundaries, and circumventing them is a form of disobedience.

- **Crossing Allah’s Limits**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:229)**  
  Allah warns against crossing the limits (Hudood) set by Him. Disobeying these limits leads to severe consequences in this life and the Hereafter.

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### **5. Ethical and Social Responsibilities**
- **Respect and Dignity**:  
  Reference: **Surah An-Nisa (4:19)**  
  Even in divorce, the wife must be treated with respect and dignity. Her rights, including her Mehr and belongings, must be fulfilled.

- **Parental Interference**:  
  Reference: **Surah Al-Baqarah (2:232)**  
  Parents and relatives should not interfere in the reconciliation process between a divorced couple if they wish to remarry.

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### **6. Final Thoughts**
- **Focus on the Waiting Period (Iddat)**:  
  The emphasis should be on the Iddat period, which provides an opportunity for reconciliation. The concept of "three divorces" should not be misused or misunderstood.

- **Avoiding Shortcuts**:  
  Islamic laws are designed to ensure fairness and justice. Taking shortcuts, such as fake Halala marriages, is a grave sin and undermines the sanctity of marriage.

- **Following Quran and Sunnah**:  
  Muslims must adhere to the Quran and Sunnah in matters of marriage and divorce, avoiding cultural practices that contradict Islamic teachings.

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### **Key Message**
The discussion emphasizes the importance of **following Allah’s commands** and **avoiding cultural practices** that contradict Islamic principles. Marriage and divorce are serious matters that require adherence to Quranic guidelines and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). By staying within the boundaries set by Allah, Muslims can ensure justice, fairness, and harmony in their relationships.

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### **Conclusion**
The topics of **Nikkah**, **Mehr**, **Jahez**, and **Divorce** are deeply rooted in Islamic teachings. However, cultural practices and misunderstandings have led to deviations from these principles. It is essential for Muslims to reflect on their actions, follow the Quran and Sunnah, and avoid crossing the limits set by Allah. By doing so, they can uphold the sanctity of marriage and ensure justice and fairness in all aspects of life.

May Allah guide us all to follow His commands and live our lives in accordance with His will. **Ameen.**

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 Islam Will Prevail

 The statement **"Islam will prevail"** reflects a profound belief in the ultimate triumph of Islam as a divine religion and way of life. This belief is rooted in the Quran, the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), and the historical resilience of the Muslim Ummah. Below, we explore the evidence and teachings from Islamic sources that affirm this belief:

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### **1. Quranic Promises of Islam’s Triumph**
Allah (SWT) has promised in the Quran that Islam will prevail and that His religion will be victorious over all falsehood. Some key verses include:

- **Surah As-Saff (61:9):**  
  **"It is He who sent His Messenger with guidance and the religion of truth to manifest it over all religion, although those who associate others with Allah dislike it."**  
  This verse is a clear promise that Islam will prevail over all other ways of life, regardless of the opposition it faces.

- **Surah At-Tawbah (9:33) and Surah Al-Fath (48:28):**  
  **"It is He who has sent His Messenger with guidance and the religion of truth to manifest it over all religion. And sufficient is Allah as a witness."**  
  These verses reiterate the divine promise that Islam will ultimately triumph.

- **Surah An-Nur (24:55):**  
  **"Allah has promised those who have believed among you and done righteous deeds that He will surely grant them succession [to authority] upon the earth just as He granted it to those before them and that He will surely establish for them their religion which He has preferred for them and that He will surely substitute for them, after their fear, security, [for] they worship Me, not associating anything with Me. But whoever disbelieves after that - then those are the defiantly disobedient."**  
  This verse promises that believers who uphold their faith and deeds will be granted authority and security, and Islam will be established firmly.

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### **2. Hadiths About Islam’s Victory**
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also spoke about the future of Islam and its ultimate triumph. Some key hadiths include:

- **The Spread of Islam:**  
  The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:  
  **"Islam began as something strange, and it will return to being strange as it began. So give glad tidings to the strangers."**  
  *(Sahih Muslim, Hadith 145)*  
  This hadith acknowledges the challenges Islam will face but also gives hope that it will prevail, just as it did in its early days.

- **The Promise of Victory:**  
  The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:  
  **"A group of people from my Ummah will continue to prevail, standing for the truth, until the Day of Judgment."**  
  *(Sahih Al-Bukhari, Hadith 7311; Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1920)*  
  This hadith assures Muslims that there will always be a group of believers who uphold Islam and ensure its continuity and victory.

- **The Conquest of Constantinople and Rome:**  
  The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:  
  **"You will conquer Constantinople, and its commander will be the best commander, and his army will be the best army."**  
  *(Musnad Ahmad, Hadith 18957, authenticated by Al-Albani)*  
  This prophecy was fulfilled when the Ottoman Sultan Mehmed II conquered Constantinople in 1453. There are also narrations about the future conquest of Rome, symbolizing Islam’s continued spread and influence.

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### **3. Historical Evidence of Islam’s Resilience**
Throughout history, Islam has faced numerous challenges, including persecution, wars, and internal divisions. Yet, it has always emerged stronger, demonstrating its divine nature and resilience. Examples include:

- The early Muslims faced severe persecution in Mecca but eventually triumphed and established Islam in Medina.
- The rapid spread of Islam across continents, from Arabia to Asia, Africa, and Europe, within a few centuries.
- The preservation of the Quran and Sunnah for over 1,400 years, unchanged and uncorrupted.

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### **4. The Role of Believers in Islam’s Triumph**
While Allah has promised that Islam will prevail, He has also entrusted believers with the responsibility of working toward this goal. This includes:

- **Dawah (Inviting to Islam):** Spreading the message of Islam with wisdom and good manners.  
  **"Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best."** (Quran 16:125)

- **Upholding Justice and Morality:** Establishing justice and righteousness in society.  
  **"O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm for Allah, witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just; that is nearer to righteousness."** (Quran 5:8)

- **Unity and Brotherhood:** Strengthening the bonds of brotherhood among Muslims.  
  **"Indeed, this Ummah of yours is one Ummah, and I am your Lord, so worship Me."** (Quran 21:92)

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### **5. The Ultimate Triumph in the Hereafter**
Islam’s ultimate victory is not limited to this world but extends to the Hereafter. On the Day of Judgment, truth will prevail, and believers will be rewarded with eternal Paradise, while falsehood will be eradicated. This is the ultimate fulfillment of Allah’s promise.

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### **Conclusion**
The belief that **"Islam will prevail"** is firmly rooted in the Quran, the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), and the historical resilience of the Muslim Ummah. While challenges and trials are inevitable, Allah’s promise is certain. As believers, our role is to strive in His path, uphold justice, and spread the message of Islam with patience and perseverance. The triumph of Islam is not just a worldly victory but a spiritual and eternal one, culminating in the success of the believers in the Hereafter.

 Momin 

"Allah will keep firm those who believe, with the firm word, in the worldly life and in the Hereafter..."
(Quran 14:27)

 

 He will most certainly make them rulers in the earth

24:55  Allah has promised to those of you who believe and do good that He will most certainly make them rulers in the earth as He made rulers those before them, and that He will most certainly establish for them their religion which He has chosen for them, and that He will most certainly, after their fear, give them security in exchange; they shall serve Me, not associating aught with Me; and whoever is ungrateful after this, these it is who are the. transgressors.

2:214 Quran

12:87 breakdown, title

 A Lesson From Prophets Companions

3:146 Many godly people fought to help the Prophets in the cause of God. They did not lose courage, show weakness, or give in when facing hardships in their fight for the cause of God. God loves those who have patience.

 

Breakdown 2:186 Quran, title (Muhammad), if any of My servants ask you about Me, tell them that the Lord says, "I am near; I accept the prayers of those who pray." Let My servants answer My call and believe in Me so that perhaps they may know the right direction.

Our Claims Being Believer Will be Tested 3:142 Quran

 

 Allah Watcher over your deeds 10:61 Quran

29:2-3 Quran, title

 

 

 You will surely be tested in your possessions and in yourselves.

3:186 quran 

 

parents

46:15 breakdown, title

 

60:8-9 Allah does not forbid you to deal justly and kindly

 

 Enter into Islam Completely

 

3. **Quran 2:208**  

*"O you who have believed, enter into Islam completely [and perfectly] and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy."*


Salah prohibits immorality and wrongdoing

Quran 29:45
"Recite what has been revealed to you of the Book and establish prayer. Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing, and the remembrance of Allah is greater. And Allah knows what you do."

   Take a Oath to Allah

Quran 6:162
"Say, 'Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for Allah, Lord of the worlds.'"

I shall grant mercy to those who maintain piety, pay Zakat

7:156 "Grant us well-being in this life and in the life hereafter for we have turned ourselves to You." The Lord replied, "My torment only afflicts those whom I want to punish, but My mercy encompasses all things. I shall grant mercy to those who maintain piety, pay their religious tax, and those who have faith in Our revelations.

 Quran 2:110

"And establish prayer and give zakah, and whatever good you put forward for yourselves—you will find it with Allah. Indeed, Allah of what you do is Seeing."

 

God Gives Life and Causes Death

44:8There is no deity except Him; He gives life and causes death. [He is] your Lord and the Lord of your first forefathers.

 

  Allah’s Perspective on Kufr"** 

2. **"Difination of Disbelief
3. **"Allah’s Wrath and Mercy
4. **"The Ultimate Destiny of Disbelievers in the Light of the Quran"** 
5. **"Kufr in the Quran: Characteristics, Punishment, and Redemption"** 
6. **"From Arrogance to Hellfire: The Quranic Description of Disbelievers"** 
7. **"Allah’s Justice A Quranic Analysis"** 
8. **"The Quran on Disbelief: Signs, Rejection, and Eternal Consequences"** 
9. **" Who Are Disbelievers in the Quran:
10. **"The Path of Disbelief:


 The Futility of Shirk (Associating Partners with Allah) (6:94, 100-101)

  • Surah Al-A'raaf (7:29): breakdown

    "Say, 'My Lord has ordered justice and that you maintain yourselves [in worship of Him] at every place of prostration, and invoke Him, sincere to Him in religion.' As He originated you, so will you return."

    • This verse emphasizes the importance of sincere worship and devotion to Allah alone.

  • The Finality of Accountability (6:94)
  • Surah Al-A'raaf (7:30): breakdown

    "A group He guided, and a group deserved [to be in] error. Indeed, they took the devils as allies instead of Allah while they thought that they were guided."

    • This verse warns against following misguidance and taking false allies instead of Allah.




  • Prophet Muhammad Fear Allah's Punishment, How Could he Save you From the Hell?

     

    6:15-16:

    1. "Say, 'Indeed I fear, if I should disobey my Lord, the punishment of a tremendous Day.'"

      • The Prophet expresses his fear of Allah’s punishment if he were to disobey Him.

      • Lesson: Even the Prophet is accountable to Allah’s laws and fears His punishment.

     

     semen hadith

    Sahih bukhari 232  sunan abi dawud 372 sunan ibn majah 537  Sahih bukhari 230  sunan ibn majah 539  sunan abi dawud 5224  

     

    33:32 Wives of the Prophet, you are not like other women. If you have fear of God, do not be tender in your speech lest people whose hearts are sick may lust after you.


     If Prophet Muhammad had been Rude [in speech] and Harsh in Heart, They would have Disbanded

    Certainly! Let’s break down **Quran 3:159** in detail, focusing on its themes, lessons, and significance.

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    ### **Verse 159 (Translation)**:
    *"So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]."*  
    *(Surah Al-Imran, 3:159)*

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    ### **Breakdown of the Verse**:

    1. **"So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them."**  
       - This part highlights the Prophet Muhammad’s (peace be upon him) character of mercy and gentleness, which was a direct result of Allah’s guidance.  
       - It reminds believers that kindness and compassion are essential qualities for leaders and individuals alike.  
       - *Lesson*: Mercy and leniency attract people and foster unity, while harshness can drive them away.

    2. **"And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you."**  
       - This emphasizes the negative consequences of harshness and arrogance. If the Prophet had been stern or unkind, people would have left him.  
       - *Lesson*: Harsh behavior can alienate others, while gentleness builds strong relationships and communities.

    3. **"So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them..."**  
       - The verse instructs the Prophet (and by extension, all believers) to forgive others and pray for their forgiveness.  
       - *Lesson*: Forgiveness is a noble trait that heals relationships and reflects spiritual maturity.

    4. **"...and consult them in the matter."**  
       - This introduces the concept of *Shura* (consultation), which is a key principle in Islamic leadership and decision-making.  
       - *Lesson*: Leaders should involve others in decision-making processes, fostering trust and collaboration.

    5. **"And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah."**  
       - After consultation and making a decision, believers are instructed to place their trust in Allah (*Tawakkul*).  
       - *Lesson*: While effort and planning are necessary, ultimate reliance should be on Allah for success.

    6. **"Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]."**  
       - This concludes the verse by affirming that trust in Allah is a quality beloved by Him.  
       - *Lesson*: Trusting Allah is not only a source of strength but also a means of earning His love and favor.

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    ### **Key Lessons from Verse 159**:
    1. **Mercy and Gentleness**: These qualities are essential for effective leadership and building strong communities.
    2. **Forgiveness**: Letting go of grudges and praying for others fosters harmony.
    3. **Consultation (*Shura*)**: Involving others in decision-making promotes unity and respect.
    4. **Trust in Allah (*Tawakkul*)**: After taking necessary steps, rely on Allah for the outcome.

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    This verse is often cited as a guide for personal conduct, leadership, and community building. Let me know if you'd like further analysis or examples of its application!

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